Skip navigation! Story from Sex. If you have a vagina, you've probably heard about the enigmatic clitoris, the supposed " magic button " that can give you orgasms capable of solving world peace. While yes, the clit exists — and yes, it can give you amazing orgasms — it's a bit more complicated than that. Much of the clit is actually internal, and the size varies from person to person. Add in differences in what turns you on one person's Idris Elba is another's Kristen Stewart , and knowing how exactly to use that clitoris to achieve orgasms can get confusing.