In reality, things are usually much different, and one of the biggest things that guys seem to struggle with when it comes to marriage — if pop culture and Google searches are to be believed — is married sex. Add things like bills, kids and career woes to the mix, and you have a decidedly non-sexy scenario lined up. This person probably sees you at your best and worst, day in and day out. So how do you make married sex … well, sexy? How do you make it fun, spontaneous, naughty and exciting all in one? Every couple is different, and different things will work for different couples.